Hey, gw beberapa hari yg lalu di tagged ama giorby, dan kemudian gw liat blog jeka n ys yg tnyata nge tag gw juga...
tp berhubung giorby yg pertama... so i'll start with:
Tagged by: Giorby
I tag: Jeka, YS (sori ya gw da bingung mo nulis sapa lagi, pdhl lu org jg da di tag giorby). HA3. whatever..
the topic is:
"Okay, so some people might have whined, protested on why are you still single or not satisfied with your partner. so now i dare y'all to explain what type of ideal partner do you want. It does not have to be serious, it might also for the purpose of reflection! dont be ashamed, and be honest okay! good luck ;p"
It's kinda hard because everybody (include me) wants perfect couple. but we must face the truth that no one perfects in this world, including me. I mean, there are many girls outside there. They're more perfect than me (beautiful, cute, rich, clever, etc). Handsome boys want them, not me. So, i can't be so selective otherwise i won't get married. That's my biggest fear. Getting married seems to be everyone's dream.
First, *i'm trying not to be racist* but my boyfriend MUST be chinese. I mean..you know..hahaha. MUST MUST MUST!
Second, he's not from poor family. I'm not materialistic, but we have to be realistic. I don't need him to buy me this this this that that...bla bla bla. But for marriage, i don't want to marry poor guy and LAZY because i will not survive. How can i eat if he is jobless? At least we have a small house, cheap car, and he has a good job, we can still eat, go shopping sometimes, and can afford our children's school fee. Of course i will get a job too, but i can't afford eveything! My money is just for complementary. At least, his family background isn't bad, because i don't want to ask my parents' money if i've already married. Otherwise, i have to give money for my parents. Again...i'm not materialistic, especially when we're still a boyfriend and girlfriend, i'm not gonna ask you to buy me things. PLS BE REALISTIC, EVERYONE! (ok, i'm so afraid if you guys call me 'matre', i'm not 'matre'!)
Thirdly, but i think it's equal with the second one, because both are very important. My boy must be nice,caring, smart, hardworking, not playboy, love me deeply (haha..), and he's not playing around with me. I want a good-personality-guy! and also has sense of humor :) I also hope he can make me happy when i'm sad or in the bad mood, bcoz i'm quite moodie :) I want a serious relationship (i hope i can keep my next boyfriend until marriage).
Fourthly, i want a handsome guy. But, i know that i'm not beautiful so i think the fourth one will be additional :) Hehehe. If there's a guy who is handsome and he likes me, i will be so happy. But, if there's a guy with 3 important conditional above, but not handsome, i think it's ok. At least he still chinese. *ok, i know i'm so racist*, but my mom doesnt allow me to have boyfriend who is...*you know*... and i don't want to! Hehehe.
I think..that's all. Sorry for my bad english, still learning :) Bukan mo sok inggris ya, tapi emg lagi pengen latihan sih, abis my english IS SO BAD!
xoxo,
steffi. YAY ME!
